If you easily get attached, this is for you.

 IF YOU EASILY GET ATTACHED, THIS IS FOR YOU 

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ADVICE ON HOW TO SET BOUNDARIES

You may fall in “love” very easily, you like people and the little things they do which makes them, them. You may tend to get attached to people within weeks and give them all of your energy and thought or you cannot sleep at night overthinking sometimes.

The reason you get overly attached to someone in no time is that you are lacking a sense of wholeness yourself and looking to get that feeling of completion and I don't mean that in a bad way at all as it is completely normal and beautiful, it feels good to be with someone but those little things that you love about other people are part of yourself that you think you lack in yourself.

Discovering yourself in every sense is a process that comes to a person naturally at his own pace, introspecting yourself is one way through which you can discover your true self and the part you are lacking that you are constantly looking into others for fulfilment

Here are some tips to emotionally detach-

• Don't let your emotions affect your actions

We often end up making bad decisions when our emotions took over our decision making power, you have control over your emotions don't let them control you. THINK WITH YOUR HEAD AND NOT WITH YOUR HEART

• Keep yourself busy in finding the true self- 

Keep yourself busy in finding what excites you, what are you passionate about, but this doesn't mean you don't give time to the person you are currently with, give time to them but do not overindulge as it will lead to invading their personal space.

• Journalise your emotions

If you are someone who gets easily attached to people, you should keep a journal where you will write your emotions, as it is the same as bequeathing your emotions into someone else 

What happens when you truly detach yourself?

True detachment derives from understanding and goes beyond action. It makes them joyous and happy, unassailable and free to go wherever they please. They who are truly detached consider their senses inoperative and are always happy. they are unafraid of indulgence and sin, while even the greatest of merits is like air to them. Responsibility is nothing to them and they are beyond reproach, their nature prefers solitude and silence. Even so, wherever they wish to go, they go. for even the loudest cities are like a forest to them. For he who walks with shoes, the whole world is paved with leather. They are beyond methods and lessons, when words are spoken they hear silence and even when disturbed they are peaceful.